Attraction –
Winning the attention of the person that you want to talk to is the first step
and it is extremely important. You should consider something distracts him/her
that makes them not to communicate with you; this includes personal issues,
emotional discomfort and negative attitudes. In order to achieve your goal, you
should to more research on the person’s background and other issues if you are
dealing a very big contract with him/her. Respect and polite greeting will gain
the person’s heart as well.
Understanding –
Manager sometimes defends their inability to communicate by asking, “Do you
understand?” This is an unfair question to the workers because this might hurt
them and they will be thinking it’s not their fault, it’s your fault. This
makes the workers dislike their managers, they may wanted to resign or any
other serious consequence. Boss should always be polite and respectful to their
workers so that their workers will be satisfied and work for him/her for a
longer time. If the transmitter and the receiver both get different meanings,
misunderstanding will happen and it might cause a fight between them. Effective
communication needs patient, clear and polite speech.
Action – Often a
good idea will always meets the acceptance or agreement, but the action process
should be clear, acceptable and it is well fitted into the world of reality.
But the idea may not be transmitted into action due to the obstacles faced by
the people; such as disagreements between workers, managers and boss, cannot
apply to the real world is the part of these reasons too.
Reference:
² “Effective
Business Communication Skills” .
<http://www.business-communication-skills.com/>
² “Good
Business communication skills - Secrets to career success”
<http://www.business-communication-skills.com/good-business-communication-skills.html>
² “Effective
Workplace communication”
<http://www..business-communication-skills.com/effective-workplace-communication.html
² “Effective
Business Communication” Dr. Keely Killpack
<http://www.slideshare.net/DrKeelyKillpack/effective-communication-electronic-presentation>
Dec 01, 2008
No comments:
Post a Comment